The Value of Extra Help: Lightening the Load for the Elderly

At any age, maintaining a household can be difficult – there’s the washing, tidying, cleaning, cooking, gardening, shopping, managing of everyday tasks which has to be done, which can feel overwhelming on the best of days. For many older adults, maintaining a household can become increasingly challenging. Tasks that once felt routine can feel so much harder, both more physically and mentally draining than they were before. Mobility issues, declining energy levels, and health concerns can turn simple chores into exhausting and never-ending to-do lists.

Yet, these chores remain essential, often leaving the elderly living at home feeling burdened by their mounting responsibilities.

This is where the value of a little extra household help comes in. By easing the load of daily tasks, we not only improve the quality of life for older adults but also enable more time and energy for the meaningful moments in life, where they are able to enjoy what they like doing. For families who already assist their elderly loved ones, the burden of managing both their own households and that of their ageing relatives can quickly lead to burnout. Hiring household help doesn’t just benefit the elderly in question —it also alleviates pressure on family caregivers, allowing them to focus on providing emotional support rather than feeling overwhelmed by physical tasks. 

When thinking about engaging household help for elderly loved ones, there are usually two hurdles – first, the acceptance of the elderly that help is needed, and secondly, finding and trusting the right person for the job. Many seniors hesitate to seek help, fearing it might compromise their independence. Ironically, extra help often supports independence rather than diminishing it.

Whether it’s a cleaner, a caregiver, or even a meal delivery service—getting help is not about taking away autonomy. It’s about preserving energy for the things that truly matter and enjoying a life free from unnecessary stress. Incorporating a little external help is a relatively low-key lifestyle change which can make all the difference.

There’s often a hesitation to accept or ask for help, particularly among older adults who may feel they’re imposing on others. However, seeking help should be seen as a practical and empowering decision. It’s not about admitting defeat—it’s about proactively prioritising health, happiness, and quality of life. Knowing that someone else is handling the cleaning, meal prep, or laundry allows older adults to relax and focus on their well-being, in (hopefully) a tidy and organised home, contributing to a greater sense of peace and comfort.

As a society, we should work to normalise the idea that hiring assistance is a smart and compassionate choice. Whether it’s a weekly cleaning service, occasional help with food shopping, or a part-time caregiver, every bit of support contributes to a better quality of life and allows seniors to remain in their own homes longer, enjoying the familiarity and comfort of their surroundings without feeling overwhelmed by upkeep.

There also doesn’t have to be a one-size-fits all solution, ILA is able to offer bespoke help, tailored to the needs of those who want it.

We want to dismantle the belief that extra help is a luxury; it’s a vital investment in well-being, and a way to sustain the quality of life that’s already so cherished by the person.

By embracing support, we enable older adults to live with greater independence, dignity, and joy.

Author Bio: Chania Fox is a freelance writer with experience in publishing and copywriting. Chania has previously worked for Linen Press, the UK's leading independent female publishing press, as well as working as a copywriter for a global design consultancy with high-profile international clients. She is also available on Linkedin.